Today is a significant day in the Brasher-Cunningham household, since it’s the day we invented the Brasher- Cunningham household eighteen years ago (more about that later). The importance of the day is enhanced because Dunkin’ Donuts opened its doors this morning at 5 a.m. — and we were the very first customers. I’ve got the…

april gave us springtime and the promiseof the flowers and the feeling that we bothshared and the love that we called ours butI can’t help but have my suspicions ‘causeI ain’t quite as dumb as I seem; tell me howcan you stand there with a broken heartashamed of playing the fool but isn’t thatthe way…

I’ve heard tell of those who rolled cigarsin Havana and how they would choose oneto read each day, the others making up hisshare of the quota so they could hear storiesthat took them beyond the little rooms wherethey rolled leaves for the pleasure of others. I live in a town built on the stories of…

I like to know what’s next as muchas possible, so when they call and say,“We need you to work a dinner Saturday,”I wish they would tell me the occasionand the menu, just so I have an idea ofhow to prepare myself to prepare the meal.I think differently for salmon than sirloin. Catering, for the most…

One could wish for a day that was carbonated,words rising effervescently, even effortlesslyto the top, bubbles of hope bursting on thesurface. Today is not that day; nor yesterday.I’m waiting for the plumber to come find theblock on our main drain, somewhere betweenhere and the street, underneath the growinggrass and the nascent hasta, undergroundwhere the words…

if it’s going to be freshthen it must be doneeveryday: today andtomorrow and the dayafter that. most of whatwe think of as life andcooking is preparation,or at least that’s whatwe call it. in fact, thechopping and peeling,the slicing, marinating –all of those things wethink of as “the gettingready” are really theshow: one long act oflove…

I turn down our tree-lined streets,the empty branches reaching skywardyearning skeletons just now beginningto show signs of new life, the groans ofcreation tuning up like an orchestrapreparing to play a new symphony. Yet, the trees have not been silent all winter.Their shadow song is harder, but a melodynonetheless. The strains of pain and silenceare not…

Brilliance with numbers is a curious thing. Paul Erdos, a Hungarian who died in 1996, used to travel the world and stop briefly at the offices and homes of fellow mathematicians. “My brain is open,” he would announce as, with uncanny intuition, he suggested a problem that, without realizing it, his host was already halfway…

A poem is like a ball park(or is the park like a poem?):some precise measurements –the height of the mound,the length of the base paths,the size of the ball –yet each park is its own,each outfield shaped byGreen Monsters and shortporches; the rules apply andno two are exactly the same. The batter who can hit…

I spent the weekend leading a youth retreat for a church in Virginia where a good friend pastors. The group of fifteen included kids from seventh through twelfth grade. They are kind, gentle, fun, and welcoming people. The weekend was scheduled to take the word retreat seriously: we have a few sessions and a great…